Child development

Looking at the little school certainly a special moment yes ma’am? Mother will encounter a variety of reactions, ranging from the little one very happy, excited, scared, or even do not want to go to school again.

Bu do not worry just yet, this is a natural thing when a child first set foot in the new environment. To help the little beradatasi, she can prepare herself to be a safe place for him to tell the whole experience and fear.

With a sense of security to tell everything he felt, he would see that whatever he faced and feel, the Little always have the strength and loving support.

Therefore, before the child starts school, she needs to teach your child how to adapt in the classroom. Not only play with the surrounding environment, but also maintain decorum during the teacher explained.

For your child to understand and menerapakannya while at school, she can teach this to six baby:

• Take her school visit
Before your child through the first day at a new school, she can invite school children to get to know first. Like, have a look around the school, showing the contents of the class, field, playground, teachers who will be teaching, and other school friends. This will help him adapt and overcome fear.

• Wearing the uniform itself
Before entering school, she could teach their own children to wear uniforms. This could help the little one to be independent when he was in school, such as uniforms apart after playing. Try to get children to be able to wear their own uniform before leaving for school.

• Wearing shoes
Before entering school, bought the little shoe that is easy to use and teach him how to tie shoelaces. Find strappy shoes which is dedicated for toddlers to facilitate the learning process. Although small, things like this that make the little more confidence dirimenghadapi challenges or difficulties.

• Get up early
Teach your child to wake up well before the start of school activities. Will make the child accustomed to always get up early. This is done so that the child is not late to school and prepare school supplies.

Woke up late cause he was in a hurry. It can be even worse if we as parents add panic to scare it will be too late, scolded the teacher and so on. Teach and familiarize your child to get up early to anticipate this situation.

• Comply with regulations
Comply with the rules will probably be its own difficulties for the little time he enters a new school. Mother ways you can try: give him two or three a responsibility to do a good habit. For example, taking out the trash dumpster, brushing your teeth before bed, and tidy up the toys after playing.

This will teach them responsibility and know that there are rules he must obey.

• Manners
Teach manners to children is not an easy job. But she could do it by teaching it simple habits, such as calling the sister or brother to brother or the older child. In addition to Mom also could get used to always say “please” when asking for something and “thank you” when he gets something from someone else.

Of course, do not forget to prepare nutritional needs also yes ma’am! Not just mental preparation and self-discipline, the Little else need proper intake to help the body and brain proceeds better. Let’s prepare the little one grabbing his future.

No child is born exactly one another. Various studies have confirmed that children are born with a range of unique personalized shaped by the world around him. However, the most dominant factor remains the personality they bring birth. Perhaps children are sociable and outgoing one, while others prefer to be alone. Maybe that one will love constant attention, while others are not too complicate. The characters of the child will obviously greatly affect how they interact with the world around them.

It is inevitable that environmental factors will be very influential in shaping the character and personality of a child’s innate. Circumference of the environment: the nuclear family-father, mother, siblings, and the circumference of the two environments: a large family-grandfather, grandmother, uncle, aunt, of course, very important role on the formation of character and personality of a child.

In a study ever conducted on twins reared apart, revealed convincing evidence that the character and personality were revealed. By streamlining and examine twins who had been separated at birth and adopted by a family with a background different, and grew up without any contact, it was concluded that the behavior after the adults apparently inherited more than she ever imagined. Twin boys that turned out very much like her face, her behavior, her attitude, social power, including character and personality.

However, you should never ignore the environmental impact derived from the circumference of three, four, and so on. Influences that come from friends in the neighborhood or school it tends to be more powerful and can change the basic character and personality keturunan.Karena obtained because you may not opt-personality for yourself or for your kids-then the you can do is to identify and pursue personality and disuratkan was given by God to you and your children’s.

By knowing the character and personality of your child, expected communication and interaction between you and them will become easier, more effective and can help you achieve ideal harmony as you want. Florance Littauer in her book Personality Plus For Parents, said: there are four basic personality that can be used to identify your child’s character and personality, namely:
1. Popular Sanguine personality-
Motto: “Let’s have fun now.”
Nicknames: “The talker.”

Children with character and personality is Sanguine Popular children tend to be big-energy, fun-loving and sociable. They also like to seek attention, affection, support, and acceptance from the people around them.
Sanguine children who love to rah-rah is almost always brings excitement and drama into any situation, like a spotlight, and loves to motivate others. They are the ones to initiate the conversation and could instantly become best friends with everyone in the group.
They are usually optimistic and almost always fun. But they could also irregular, emotional, and hypersensitive about what people say to them.

Deal with children with character and personality sanguinis, communication approaches that should be done by the parents as much as possible to be creative because children sanguinis like diversity and love being the center of attention. This type of child will respond to affection, conversation, and the attention of personal nature.

When asked to do a task, let them solve it creatively by simply giving louvers only. Be sure to offer them structure, including positive discipline and vigorous. Encourage them to participate in the group activities and counseling many kids his age. They are also good at making money and getting challenged when introduced to others in a way that splashy and fun.
2. Strong personality-Koleris
Motto: “Do it now.”
Nicknames: “The executors.”

Children with Strong character and personality is Choleric children are naturally oriented targets, whose life is devoted to achievement, and who quickly organized. They always demanded loyalty and appreciation of the people that surround them.

Koleris always trying to control the child and expect recognition for his accomplishments. They like to be challenged and easily accept difficult assignments. Self-discipline and the ability to focus on making them become strong leaders.
However, encouragement and determination they can make them addicted to work, feel self-righteous and stubborn himself, and make them insensitive to the feelings of others.

Deal with children with character and personality koleris, communication approaches that should be done by the parents as much as possible not involve feeling and judging. Children of this type tend to be callous, so parents should not demonstrative offended or hurt if the kids give harsh response when reprimanded or ordered. The kids really appreciate justice, logic, honesty, and frankness.

When asked to do a task, given the obvious purpose without intending to set-langkahnyastep step by step. You have to give the job to mention the benefits and usefulness. Do not forget to ask when and how they will solve it for you to be able to predict and measure outcomes achievements.
3. Perfect personality-Melancholy
Motto: “Let’s do it right.”
Nicknames: “The thinker.”

Children with character and personality Perfect Melancholy is a child who tend to be quiet and a thinker. They will always try to pursue perfection in all things that are important to them. With perfection as the goal, the kids like this are often disappointed and even depressed because of the results obtained are less than perfect.

Melancholy child always requires sensitivity and support from others. They need space and peace in which they can think before they speak, write, or even acting. They are children-oriented tasks prudent and organized.

They like to order and you can rely on them to complete a task on time. But perfection is an obsession that they can make a critical or pessimistic with their efforts to meet the high standards themselves.

Deal with children with character and personality melancholy, communication approaches that should be done by parents to be filled with appreciation for what they have done well. Children of this type tend to be competitive and may not be too respond to the lure of gifts or game that you’re proposing.

If asked them to do a job, tell in a way that does not tell the tone flat and soft, like: “You’re not doing your homework, yes, today?”-Not: “Come on, do your homework now “. If the task that you give them is not completed, no need to argue anything. Instead, give constructive feedback, not sharp criticism. Because they tend to be perfectionists, they will merngkritik themselves without the need to ask.

4. Peace-Phlegmatic Personality
Motto: “Why stand if you can sit down.”
Nicknames: “The observer.”

Children with character and personality is Phlegmatic Peaceful and balanced children who tend to be content. They do not feel the need to go change the world or harass their status quo. For people with strong convictions, Phlegmatic children look more sluggish than the others. This is not because they are not as smart as the others, but precisely because they are more intelligent than others. While others grumbled and worried, they watched it and was determined to not discuss trivial matters.

They do not like risk, challenge, and surprise, and will need time to adjust to the changes. Although they tend to avoid situations that are too pressing, they can work well under pressure. However, the lack of discipline and motivation often makes them procrastinate when there is no strong leader.
Phlegmatic children censerung also withdrew, but like to be around people a lot. Although they do not need a lot of talking, they have a lot of sense and likes to say the right thing at the right time. They are steady and stable. Because peace-oriented, they love to create security for the environment tends to act as a negotiator rather than fight.

Deal with children with character and personality Phlegmatic, communication approaches that should be done by the parents as much as possible a friendly and non-threatening. Children of this type tend to behave as a good listener and observer. A good example is to be done by the parents of the child’s character and personality. As a peacemaker, the kids will be happy to reconcile a friend or family member who is at loggerheads. They will try to find a way out without being asked.

When asked to do a task, given the clear division of tasks based on level so that they can be easily noticed keberhasilannya.Bila difficult problem has been given in the beginning, this type of child will feel overwhelmed and will tend to ignore it. If they are appreciated by their parents, they will feel more proud of themselves.

Child’s world is always interesting to note. CHILDREN, especially children during school and age. Innocence, happiness, initiative and imagination belong to children – children. In the science of child development, during the school-age child is entering a phase where they begin to learn in groups, collaboration, obey the rules and learn to share with peers.

One example is the sports activities. For example, playing football and join in extra-curricular groups. In school children facilitated the opportunity to develop social skills for the better. Children can choose the desired extra-curricular activities as distribution of talent and learning opportunities in collaboration with the child – another boy.

The importance of meritocracy

Duty as parents in mentoring elementary school children are among them encouragement, praise for the achievements of children, respect children’s work. For example, gifted children in the field of sports. Give rewards when successfully obtaining olahraga.Pemberian champion awards and honors in the field is very significant in the psychological development of a child.

In the theory of child development child mental emotional state is referred to as the industry feeling the child’s self. He feels meaningful and successful and recognized. This is a provision for future development in adulthood. Children grow in confidence and have the ability to appreciate other people’s work as well.

Playing a learning tool

In children – school age children the age 6-11 years is very important developed self-confidence, courage, initiative and the ability to socialize among peers. A child who is too restricted and even banned her social play in groups – small groups, later when adults will experience problems in finding her identity.

Period of play with peers actually be one of the means for a child to learn independently among his friends, the feeling of autonomy and initiative well honed. Parents should supervise and monitor only when the child was playing with a group of peers. Should not participate regulate and dictate the child’s freedom of expression and imagination as far as it is not harmful to children.

The controls are too stringent and excessive discipline would interfere with the process of the development and formation of the child’s personality. Children grow into a decision always depends on the parents, afraid to take the initiative, could not face the conflicts and pressures of the environment due to excess always feel protected.

Learn to deal with conflict

In play with peers sometimes there is little dispute fellow children, it is reasonable. Parents do not need to intervene and participate provoked emotions. If we look at the children more easily reconciled after a quarrel. That’s when kids actually start to learn to control themselves, yield, share, search for simple solutions and resolve minor conflicts in life together. Meanwhile parents dispute child intervened just still feel irritated and annoyed with the child’s behavior continues even confront neighbors who have children. Events like this should not happen with a note, squabbling children do not involve physical violence or harm. Stay with it and tell the children to forgive each other.

Freedom of expression and creativity

A child who grew up in a family that gave freedom of expression and creativity will help a child grow older.

When small children are often prohibited from hanging out, heckled, and it is forbidden, blamed and ridiculed with the nickname names that make a child minder, no support from surrounding communities. If this happens, then do not be surprised if later on the child grows into a man who can not make decisions, less responsible, easily influenced environment.

Different when a child is raised in a family that gave positive support for the development of child psychology, and compassionate enough attention, good social control of the family and the community. The result children will have a mature personality and has the ability to resolve conflicts and challenges in her life in the community.

Assistance and mental support from parents is very meaningful and remembered childhood will pass quickly. We must not lose important moment in the formation phase of the child’s personality. In principle, parents should only facilitate the growth and development needs of children according to age stages. Avoid making parenting the child as an object of desire and a willingness to impose the parents or even the children in a living doll who must do all the rules and parental selfishness.

Growth of children into adolescence is a period that can be fairly fast. Sometimes a lot of parents do not realize or skip this important period; seemed suddenly they find their sons and daughters are teenagers. Basically in this period significant changes in the person of the child, both physically and in terms of the child’s psychological. During the growth of children into adolescence is the most important moments.

Growth of children into adolescence in addition to dietary factors also influenced by other factors such as genetic factors, and hormones such as growth hormone, thyroid hormones etc.. Every parent should know the stages of a child’s growth. Because it will drastically change from childhood to adolescence not only of the physical but also psychological.

GROWTH STAGES TO THE YOUNG CHILD

Growth of children into adolescence will experience the various stages in the development of age-appropriate:

- The most rapid growth occurred in the child’s first year. At the age of 0 to 3 years old kid growing very fast, but at the age of 3-4 years of growth gradually – gradually decreases are not as fast in the early years of its growth.

- Then walk with slow growth and regularly until the time of puberty.

- At the time of puberty baligh at around age 12 to 16 years of growing back fast

- Then the speed will be gradually reduced until a time (usually around the age of 18 years) will stop.

FEATURES – PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS IN TEENS

On the growth of children into adolescence will be highly visible physical changes. Among them are

- Primary Sex Characteristics
Physical changes in boys as sexual organs maturity usually occurs at about age 14 to 16 years were characterized by wet dreams. Whereas in young women characterized by the first menstruation. A rapid growth in the reproductive organs such as the uterus and ovaries are functioning to produce eggs and hormones of pregnancy. At the beginning of the menstrual cycle is often accompanied by low back pain, headaches, fatigue, and irritability.

- Secondary Sex Characteristics
At the young men to grow the hairs on the body such as the mustache, beard, hands, feet. sideburns, underarms and genitals. The skin will turn out to be rough, and the sound will be turned into a raucous and low. And will grow Adam’s apple in the neck. While the young women will also experience changes in her body. Such as the growth of hair on the armpits and genitals. Growth also occurred in the glands that will produce milk so there is a growth in his chest as in normal women as well as enlargement of the part of the hips.

Hopefully this article about the growth of the child into adolescence can add to our knowledge, especially parents who have children in the family.